2 Samuel 13
1 Kings 13 begins with the wickedness Jeroboam committed when he set up idols, and with the story of how God’s judgment on the altar in Bethel is announced to the people. It then highlights the importance of obeying God’s Word by recording events of faith and disobedience between God’s man and an old prophet. Overall, this is a chapter that contrasts the authority of God’s Word with human weakness.
1verseAfter this, Absalom the son of David had a beautiful sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her.
2verseAmnon was so troubled that he became sick because of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed hard to Amnon to do anything to her.
3verseBut Amnon had a friend whose name was Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother; and Jonadab was a very subtle man.
4verseHe said to him, “Why, son of the king, are you so sad from day to day? Won’t you tell me?” Amnon said to him, “I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister.”
5verseJonadab said to him, “Lay down on your bed and pretend to be sick. When your father comes to see you, tell him, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and give me bread to eat, and prepare the food in my sight, that I may see it and eat it from her hand.’”
6verseSo Amnon lay down and faked being sick. When the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king, “Please let my sister Tamar come and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat from her hand.”
7verseThen David sent home to Tamar, saying, “Go now to your brother Amnon’s house, and prepare food for him.”
8verseSo Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was lying down. She took dough, kneaded it, made cakes in his sight, and baked the cakes.
9verseShe took the pan and poured them out before him, but he refused to eat. Amnon said, “Have all men leave me.” Then every man went out from him.
10verseAmnon said to Tamar, “Bring the food into the room, that I may eat from your hand.” Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the room to Amnon her brother.
11verseWhen she had brought them near to him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, “Come, lie with me, my sister!”
12verseShe answered him, “No, my brother, do not force me! For no such thing ought to be done in Israel. Don’t you do this folly!
13verseAs for me, where would I carry my shame? And as for you, you will be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, please speak to the king; for he will not withhold me from you.”
14verseHowever, he would not listen to her voice; but being stronger than she, he forced her and lay with her.
15verseThen Amnon hated her with exceedingly great hatred; for the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. Amnon said to her, “Arise, be gone!”
16verseShe said to him, “Not so, because this great wrong in sending me away is worse than the other that you did to me!” But he would not listen to her.
17verseThen he called his servant who ministered to him, and said, “Now put this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her.”
18verseShe had a garment of various colors on her, for the king’s daughters who were virgins dressed in such robes. Then his servant brought her out and bolted the door after her.
19verseTamar put ashes on her head, and tore her garment of various colors that was on her; and she laid her hand on her head and went her way, crying aloud as she went.
20verseAbsalom her brother said to her, “Has Amnon your brother been with you? But now hold your peace, my sister. He is your brother. Don’t take this thing to heart.” So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house.
21verseBut when King David heard of all these things, he was very angry.
22verseAbsalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.
23verseAfter two full years, Absalom had sheep shearers in Baal Hazor, which is beside Ephraim; and Absalom invited all the king’s sons.
24verseAbsalom came to the king and said, “See now, your servant has sheep shearers. Please let the king and his servants go with your servant.”
25verseThe king said to Absalom, “No, my son, let’s not all go, lest we be burdensome to you.” He pressed him; however he would not go, but blessed him.
26verseThen Absalom said, “If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us.” The king said to him, “Why should he go with you?”
27verseBut Absalom pressed him, and he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him.
28verseAbsalom commanded his servants, saying, “Mark now, when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine; and when I tell you, ‘Strike Amnon,’ then kill him. Don’t be afraid. Haven’t I commanded you? Be courageous, and be valiant!”
29verseThe servants of Absalom did to Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king’s sons arose, and every man got up on his mule and fled.
30verseWhile they were on the way, the news came to David, saying, “Absalom has slain all the king’s sons, and there is not one of them left!”
31verseThen the king arose, and tore his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn.
32verseJonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother, answered, “Don’t let my lord suppose that they have killed all the young men, the king’s sons, for Amnon only is dead; for by the appointment of Absalom this has been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar.
33verseNow therefore don’t let my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead; for only Amnon is dead.”
34verseBut Absalom fled. The young man who kept the watch lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, many people were coming by way of the hillside behind him.
35verseJonadab said to the king, “Behold, the king’s sons are coming! It is as your servant said.”
36verseAs soon as he had finished speaking, behold, the king’s sons came, and lifted up their voices and wept. The king also and all his servants wept bitterly.
37verseBut Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihur, king of Geshur. David mourned for his son every day.
38verseSo Absalom fled and went to Geshur, and was there three years.
39verseKing David longed to go out to Absalom, for he was comforted concerning Amnon, since he was dead.
The Announcement of God’s Judgment at the Altar in Bethel
King Jeroboam sets up idols and altars at Bethel and Dan so that the Israelites cannot go to Jerusalem in Judah to offer sacrifices. In response, a man of God from Judah proclaims before Jeroboam and the people that God will judge this altar, and that a king named Josiah will be born who will put an end to idol worship. When the sign from God immediately occurs—causing the altar to split and ashes to spill—Jeroboam, enraged, tries to arrest the man of God, but his hand withers and becomes stiff. Later, the man of God prays and his hand is restored, yet Jeroboam does not repent of his sin.
God’s Word and Human Disobedience
The man of God receives the command from God not to eat or drink anything there and not to return, but he is deceived by the false words of an old prophet and stays in his house to eat. As a result, God’s warning is given immediately, and he is killed by a lion on his way back. The old prophet buries his body and admits that the words of God he had proclaimed will surely come to pass.
Structure and Flow
- Verses 1–10: The man of God proclaims the judgment that came upon the altar in Bethel, and a miracle appears.
- Verses 11–19: An old prophet appears and deceives the man of God.
- Verses 20–25: God’s judgment comes upon the man of God who disobeyed.
- Verses 26–32: The old prophet buries the man of God and acknowledges his prophecy.
- Verses 33–34: Jeroboam does not repent and continues doing evil.
Meditation Points
- The importance of wholehearted obedience to God’s Word
- The authority of God’s commands over a person’s words or circumstances
- The lesson that obedience to the Word matters more than outward miracles
Applying It to Myself
- When following God’s will and commands, check whether your life includes an attitude of obedience that is not swayed by human logic, circumstances, or others’ words.
- When you hear God’s Word, find one thing you can put into practice in your life so that you obey fully without hesitation or compromise.
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