Romans 7
1 Corinthians 7 is the part where Paul answers questions from the members of the Corinthian church, providing practical guidance about marriage, singleness, divorce, and life as a married couple. If earlier parts of the letter dealt with various church issues, from chapter 7 onward it takes the form of direct answers to questions sent by believers (see 7:1). This chapter offers balanced teaching about a variety of circumstances related to marriage—marriage, divorce, singleness, remarriage, and couples with different beliefs.
1verseOr don’t you know, brothers (for I speak to men who know the law), that the law has dominion over a man for as long as he lives?
2verseFor the woman that has a husband is bound by law to the husband while he lives, but if the husband dies, she is discharged from the law of the husband.
3verseSo then if, while the husband lives, she is joined to another man, she would be called an adulteress. But if the husband dies, she is free from the law, so that she is no adulteress, though she is joined to another man.
4verseTherefore, my brothers, you also were made dead to the law through the body of Christ, that you would be joined to another, to him who was raised from the dead, that we might produce fruit to God.
5verseFor when we were in the flesh, the sinful passions which were through the law worked in our members to bring out fruit to death.
6verseBut now we have been discharged from the law, having died to that in which we were held; so that we serve in newness of the spirit, and not in oldness of the letter.
7verseWhat shall we say then? Is the law sin? May it never be! However, I wouldn’t have known sin except through the law. For I wouldn’t have known coveting unless the law had said, “You shall not covet.”
8verseBut sin, finding occasion through the commandment, produced in me all kinds of coveting. For apart from the law, sin is dead.
9verseI was alive apart from the law once, but when the commandment came, sin revived and I died.
10verseThe commandment which was for life, this I found to be for death;
11versefor sin, finding occasion through the commandment, deceived me, and through it killed me.
12verseTherefore the law indeed is holy, and the commandment holy, righteous, and good.
13verseDid then that which is good become death to me? May it never be! But sin, that it might be shown to be sin, was producing death in me through that which is good; that through the commandment sin might become exceedingly sinful.
14verseFor we know that the law is spiritual, but I am fleshly, sold under sin.
15verseFor I don’t understand what I am doing. For I don’t practice what I desire to do; but what I hate, that I do.
16verseBut if what I don’t desire, that I do, I consent to the law that it is good.
17verseSo now it is no more I that do it, but sin which dwells in me.
18verseFor I know that in me, that is, in my flesh, dwells no good thing. For desire is present with me, but I don’t find it doing that which is good.
19verseFor the good which I desire, I don’t do; but the evil which I don’t desire, that I practice.
20verseBut if what I don’t desire, that I do, it is no more I that do it, but sin which dwells in me.
21verseI find then the law that, while I desire to do good, evil is present.
22verseFor I delight in God’s law after the inward person,
23versebut I see a different law in my members, warring against the law of my mind, and bringing me into captivity under the law of sin which is in my members.
24verseWhat a wretched man I am! Who will deliver me out of the body of this death?
25verseI thank God through Jesus Christ, our Lord! So then with the mind, I myself serve God’s law, but with the flesh, sin’s law.
Principles Concerning Marriage
- The value of marriage and singleness: Paul makes it clear that marriage is not a sin, while also emphasizing that singleness is a precious life lived for the Lord. Since each person has different gifts, he says there is no need to force oneself into marriage or to choose singleness (7:7).
- Duties and relationships between spouses: Paul speaks of the fact that a married husband and wife have rights over each other’s bodies, and he stresses that love, respect, and mutual commitment are important between spouses (7:3-5).
Paul’s Counsel About Divorce and Remarriage
- An answer about divorce: Citing the Lord’s words, Paul does not encourage spouses to separate or divorce; if divorce becomes unavoidable, he advises them to reconcile or remain single (7:10-11).
- Marriage to an unbelieving spouse: If one of the spouses comes to faith, Paul emphasizes that the believing spouse should not divorce if the unbelieving spouse wants to live together, and that the influence of faith can be shared within the household (7:12-16).
Counsel to Remain in One’s Calling
Paul encourages each person to live faithfully in the place they have been called, regardless of their circumstances—whether they are married or not, or regardless of their social status (7:17-24). Although faith gives new value to life, rather than seeking sudden change, it is important to live according to God’s will in that very place.
The Benefits and Practice of Singleness
- The advantages of singleness: Paul says that from an end-times perspective, singleness allows one to serve the Lord more freely, and he also states that marriage is a gift from God (7:32-35).
- The principle of freedom: He encourages people to follow their calling before God, without being bound by whether they are married or single. He repeats that it is essential to live faithfully in the Lord wherever one is.
Meditation Points
- Consider what ways you can live that will please God in your current situation and circumstances.
- You can also reflect again on the meaning of God’s gifts and calling in relationships, decisions, and commitment.
Try Applying It to Yourself
- In the place of my life (marriage, singleness, family, etc.), check what is needed to faithfully carry out the responsibilities and calling currently given to me.
- You can think about specific practices that follow God’s heart rather than just formality, and follow God rather than the customs of the world.
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