Proverbs 25
Proverbs 25 begins by explaining that part of Solomon’s proverbs was collected during the reign of King Hezekiah. This chapter mainly presents principles for a wise life in many areas, including the attitudes of kings and leaders, wisdom for uncovering truth, language and demeanor, and etiquette in relationships. Each verse is in the form of an independent proverb, yet overall it follows a flow that emphasizes the harmony of social order and relationships.
1verseThese also are proverbs of Solomon, which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied out.
2verseIt is the glory of God to conceal a thing, but the glory of kings is to search out a matter.
3verseAs the heavens for height, and the earth for depth, so the hearts of kings are unsearchable.
4verseTake away the dross from the silver, and material comes out for the refiner.
5verseTake away the wicked from the king’s presence, and his throne will be established in righteousness.
6verseDon’t exalt yourself in the presence of the king, or claim a place among great men;
7versefor it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,” than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince, whom your eyes have seen.
8verseDon’t be hasty in bringing charges to court. What will you do in the end when your neighbor shames you?
9verseDebate your case with your neighbor, and don’t betray the confidence of another,
10verselest one who hears it put you to shame, and your bad reputation never depart.
11verseA word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver.
12verseAs an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, so is a wise reprover to an obedient ear.
13verseAs the cold of snow in the time of harvest, so is a faithful messenger to those who send him; for he refreshes the soul of his masters.
14verseAs clouds and wind without rain, so is he who boasts of gifts deceptively.
15verseBy patience a ruler is persuaded. A soft tongue breaks the bone.
16verseHave you found honey? Eat as much as is sufficient for you, lest you eat too much, and vomit it.
17verseLet your foot be seldom in your neighbor’s house, lest he be weary of you, and hate you.
18verseA man who gives false testimony against his neighbor is like a club, a sword, or a sharp arrow.
19verseConfidence in someone unfaithful in time of trouble is like a bad tooth or a lame foot.
20verseAs one who takes away a garment in cold weather, or vinegar on soda, so is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.
21verseIf your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat. If he is thirsty, give him water to drink;
22versefor you will heap coals of fire on his head, and the LORD will reward you.
23verseThe north wind produces rain; so a backbiting tongue brings an angry face.
24verseIt is better to dwell in the corner of the housetop than to share a house with a contentious woman.
25verseLike cold water to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.
26verseLike a muddied spring and a polluted well, so is a righteous man who gives way before the wicked.
27verseIt is not good to eat much honey, nor is it honorable to seek one’s own honor.
28verseLike a city that is broken down and without walls is a man whose spirit is without restraint.
Summary of the Main Content
- Verses 1–7: the attitudes of rulers and leaders, wisdom that investigates the truth, and the importance of humility (especially being wise not to take initiative but to keep to the place given)
- Verses 8–20: In relationships with others, repeatedly emphasized are points such as how to relate to one’s neighbors, avoiding arguments, wisdom in appropriate words and actions, trust and betrayal, and the language of consideration.
- Verses 21–28: the attitude toward an enemy (doing good to the wicked), wisdom to control one’s feelings and desires, and the importance of restraint and self-management are revealed.
Overall Meaning of This Chapter
Proverbs 25 provides practical advice on how to live wisely within society and the community. In particular, it urges careful attention to one’s role and speech, and to hold a higher moral standard even amid conflicts with others. Such wisdom greatly helps maintain the community’s order and sustain peaceful relationships.
Meditation Points
- Do I control my thoughts and feelings and stay careful in my words and actions?
- In my neighborhood or community, am I building relationships wisely and fulfilling my role faithfully?
- You can reflect on what your attitude toward an enemy is like, and how you respond in difficult situations.
Try Applying It to Yourself
| Practice | Check your words, actions, and attitude today, and practice making wise choices that bring harmony and peace. |
| Relationships | Before responding emotionally in a particular situation, let’s think about the other person’s position and practice being gentle toward them. |
| Growth | When things are hard or misunderstandings arise, pause for a moment and take time to encourage yourself so you can govern what’s in your heart. |
