Proverbs 23

Passage overview

Proverbs 23 warns against various temptations encountered in everyday life and urges readers to choose a wise way of living. The chapter can be divided into 1) wisdom about food and wealth, 2) the importance of correction and instruction, 3) warnings about pleasure and alcohol—three main parts. Each one offers practical advice for important areas of our lives, and it warns us about things that may seem sweet on the surface but ultimately bring harm (such as excessive greed, idleness, drinking, and the like).

1verseWhen you sit to eat with a ruler, consider diligently what is before you;

2verseput a knife to your throat if you are a man given to appetite.

3verseDon’t be desirous of his dainties, since they are deceitful food.

4verseDon’t weary yourself to be rich. In your wisdom, show restraint.

5verseWhy do you set your eyes on that which is not? For it certainly sprouts wings like an eagle and flies in the sky.

6verseDon’t eat the food of him who has a stingy eye, and don’t crave his delicacies,

7versefor as he thinks about the cost, so he is. “Eat and drink!” he says to you, but his heart is not with you.

8verseYou will vomit up the morsel which you have eaten and waste your pleasant words.

9verseDon’t speak in the ears of a fool, for he will despise the wisdom of your words.

10verseDon’t move the ancient boundary stone. Don’t encroach on the fields of the fatherless,

11versefor their Defender is strong. He will plead their case against you.

12verseApply your heart to instruction, and your ears to the words of knowledge.

13verseDon’t withhold correction from a child. If you punish him with the rod, he will not die.

14versePunish him with the rod, and save his soul from Sheol.

15verseMy son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad, even mine.

16verseYes, my heart will rejoice when your lips speak what is right.

17verseDon’t let your heart envy sinners, but rather fear the LORD all day long.

18verseIndeed surely there is a future hope, and your hope will not be cut off.

19verseListen, my son, and be wise, and keep your heart on the right path!

20verseDon’t be among ones drinking too much wine, or those who gorge themselves on meat;

21versefor the drunkard and the glutton shall become poor; and drowsiness clothes them in rags.

22verseListen to your father who gave you life, and don’t despise your mother when she is old.

23verseBuy the truth, and don’t sell it. Get wisdom, discipline, and understanding.

24verseThe father of the righteous has great joy. Whoever fathers a wise child delights in him.

25verseLet your father and your mother be glad! Let her who bore you rejoice!

26verseMy son, give me your heart; and let your eyes keep in my ways.

27verseFor a prostitute is a deep pit; and a wayward wife is a narrow well.

28verseYes, she lies in wait like a robber, and increases the unfaithful among men.

29verseWho has woe? Who has sorrow? Who has strife? Who has complaints? Who has needless bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes?

30verseThose who stay long at the wine; those who go to seek out mixed wine.

31verseDon’t look at the wine when it is red, when it sparkles in the cup, when it goes down smoothly.

32verseIn the end, it bites like a snake, and poisons like a viper.

33verseYour eyes will see strange things, and your mind will imagine confusing things.

34verseYes, you will be as he who lies down in the middle of the sea, or as he who lies on top of the rigging:

35verse“They hit me, and I was not hurt! They beat me, and I don’t feel it! When will I wake up? I can do it again. I will look for more.”

Summary of Key Points

OverviewKey points
Temptation at the table (verses 1–3)Don’t be greedy when dining with those in power; emphasizes the importance of self-control
The fleeting nature of wealth and achievement (verses 4–5)Pursue wisdom rather than chasing wealth
Be careful of false friends (verses 6–8)Be wary of hospitality from someone who is not sincere
Encouragement regarding correction and learning (e.g., verses 12, 19, 22)Don’t miss wisdom, knowledge, and correction; treasure your parents’ instruction
The danger of immorality and reckless living (verses 26–28)Seek a clean life and keep your distance from temptation
A warning against drunkenness (verses 29–35)Describes in detail the problems caused by alcohol and issues a warning

The Overall Meaning of Proverbs 23

Proverbs 23 emphasizes our inner self-control, seeking true wisdom, and a life that overcomes the many temptations of daily living. It encourages people to break free from greed, lust for possessions, physical pleasures, foolish relationships, and drinking—things they commonly fall into—so that they don’t lose true values and the direction of genuine life. By committing wisdom and instruction to heart, it conveys the message that it is important to prioritize inner maturity over outward success first.

Reflection Points

  • In everyday life, what temptations or habits do I need to watch out for?
  • Am I guarding my heart in front of other people, especially those with power or those who have achieved success?
  • Take a moment to reflect on what I truly consider to be wisdom in my life.
  • What small commitment can I make today to break free from recurring temptations like alcohol or pleasure?

Apply It to Yourself

  • Today, practice self-control in small things from everyday life—food, words, relationships, and habits.
  • Make inner growth and a wise life for yourself and your family a priority, not wealth or pleasure.
  • Spend time deeply treasuring the instruction of your parents or close people and being grateful.