Ecclesiastes 7
Song of Songs 7 is a poem that depicts a conversation between a loving man and woman praising each other’s beauty and love. As in the preceding chapters, it follows the traditional form of Israel’s love songs while expressing the intimate relationship between lovers and deep affection in rich language.
The whole chapter centers on the mutual admiration of two figures: the bridegroom (man) and the bride (woman). First, the bridegroom describes and praises the bride’s beauty in detail from head to toe (verses 1–9). Then, the bride expresses her love and longing toward the bridegroom (verses 10–13), showing how their love grows even deeper.
1verseA good name is better than fine perfume; and the day of death better than the day of one’s birth.
2verseIt is better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting; for that is the end of all men, and the living should take this to heart.
3verseSorrow is better than laughter; for by the sadness of the face the heart is made good.
4verseThe heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.
5verseIt is better to hear the rebuke of the wise than for a man to hear the song of fools.
6verseFor as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool. This also is vanity.
7verseSurely extortion makes the wise man foolish; and a bribe destroys the understanding.
8verseBetter is the end of a thing than its beginning. The patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.
9verseDon’t be hasty in your spirit to be angry, for anger rests in the bosom of fools.
10verseDon’t say, “Why were the former days better than these?” For you do not ask wisely about this.
11verseWisdom is as good as an inheritance. Yes, it is more excellent for those who see the sun.
12verseFor wisdom is a defense, even as money is a defense; but the excellency of knowledge is that wisdom preserves the life of him who has it.
13verseConsider the work of God, for who can make that straight which he has made crooked?
14verseIn the day of prosperity be joyful, and in the day of adversity consider; yes, God has made the one side by side with the other, to the end that man should not find out anything after him.
15verseAll this I have seen in my days of vanity: there is a righteous man who perishes in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man who lives long in his evildoing.
16verseDon’t be overly righteous, neither make yourself overly wise. Why should you destroy yourself?
17verseDon’t be too wicked, neither be foolish. Why should you die before your time?
18verseIt is good that you should take hold of this. Yes, also don’t withdraw your hand from that; for he who fears God will come out of them all.
19verseWisdom is a strength to the wise man more than ten rulers who are in a city.
20verseSurely there is not a righteous man on earth who does good and doesn’t sin.
21verseAlso don’t take heed to all words that are spoken, lest you hear your servant curse you;
22versefor often your own heart knows that you yourself have likewise cursed others.
23verseAll this I have proved in wisdom. I said, “I will be wise;” but it was far from me.
24verseThat which is, is far off and exceedingly deep. Who can find it out?
25verseI turned around, and my heart sought to know and to search out, and to seek wisdom and the scheme of things, and to know that wickedness is stupidity, and that foolishness is madness.
26verseI find more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and traps, whose hands are chains. Whoever pleases God shall escape from her; but the sinner will be ensnared by her.
27verse“Behold, I have found this,” says the Preacher, “to one another, to find an explanation
28versewhich my soul still seeks, but I have not found. I have found one man among a thousand, but I have not found a woman among all those.
29verseBehold, I have only found this: that God made mankind upright; but they search for many inventions.”
Main Flow and Meaning
- The Bridegroom’s Praise (verses 1–9): The bridegroom describes the bride’s physical beauty with sensitivity. This goes beyond appearance and shows a heart that honors the entire being of the person he loves. Each body-part metaphor uses things that, in ancient Israelite culture, carried positive meanings.
- Mutual Commitment and Love (verses 10–13): Turning to the bride’s perspective, she declares that she belongs entirely to her bridegroom (“I belong to my beloved”), expressing her desire to share the fruits and abundance of love. This scene symbolically represents their devotion to one another, their satisfaction, and fellowship in an even deeper love.
Meditation Points
- Song of Songs 7 shows how beautiful and valuable it is to respect and cherish the one you love in a loving relationship, as well as how true commitment can be.
- The love expressed in the passage is not limited to being merely emotional or physical; it emphasizes mutual care, devotion, and the depth of intimacy.
Try Applying It to Me
- Let’s reflect on whether I truly express how precious the people I love around me are, and whether I am not losing the heart that respects and values one another in our relationships.
- Remembering the value of sincere love and devotion, we can make small commitments so that love becomes abundant in all my relationships in life (family, friends, community, and so on).
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